How do you define fun? Is it something that is only playtime and does not involve your job or some kind of work? Or, is it something that you simply enjoy, regardless of whether it is you are getting paid to do it, have to do it, or is a chore that will make life better? Mowing the grass is an example of this. We may love to be outside, but may or may not define this specific activity as fun. Fun can be defined as: play, sport, amusement, relaxation, entertainment, recreation, pastime, solace, or pleasure. Each individual defines fun for themselves. However, in the everyday bustle of living, there is often less fun and more stress.
Yesterday I had the opportunity to spend time with two long-tine friends. We don’t often see each other, but when we do it is an instant connection. Both of these people talked about fun. One is planning a 21-day walk of the Katy Train in Missouri with her husband. She talked about looking forward to the fun they would have on the trip.
The other friend is a hard-working executive with way too many irons in the fire and much to do. She talked about the pace of her life and how she never seems to get everything done. However, I thought she had a wonderful suggestion for all of us workaholics. Each morning she makes a to-do list for the day. As she makes this she specifically puts down five things that will be fun! These are simple things, like the two of us sharing a cup of coffee, getting some windshield time as she is driving, or a bubble bath at the end of the day. It is often the simple things that are the most fun!
Actually we could have more fun than we do. It is an attitude thing! How much of our day do we spend in expectation of more stress or frustration? When we go into a meeting, do we see it as fun? When we are stuck in traffic is it fun? When a child or co-worked is difficult, is it fun? Maybe not like a party kind of fun, but we can still find something to have fun with in these situations. Sometimes we can make fun by being glad something is over – like a visit to the dentist. It would benefit us by reducing our stress and make our life easier. It is an attitude of looking for something to laugh about or enjoy. Fun is all around us – we just have to be aware of it. It is a gift we can give ourselves. So, if you’re not having fun yet, start now!